Since you all liked that term so much its my new thread.
Call it what you will boosting PMA, GAL...socializing, dipping your toes in the water, most of us old timers on here are so far into this separation crap and pending divorce disasters that this is the next step. Getting ourselves prepared for the reality that we may just have to take that plunge back into the single and mingle scene...UGH.
Of course I will still be posting about the dramas of separation. Cause those are never ending.
So far stil no real changes, H is a donkey. Gets colder and nastier as time goes on. He just hasn't been cured of his "anal rectal inversion" just yet. The light bulb hasn't been turned on and I am not sure it will. Once the filing for the Big D comes I think it might be a "last call for alcohol" thing and he will be shocked into action or go his separate way. I am prepared for either scenario. But of course there are stipulations for him to meet in order to get back in my good graces...IC for him and continuing MC for us...(I am in IC so I am fulfilling my end of that bargain). He adamently refuses IC, so I don't see reconciliation happening at this point, but time will tell.
Anyway, just wanted to post something a little more upbeat and positive than my last post. Got to love this rollercoaster ride.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.