I can really feel you right now. My kids are 8 and 6 too. This is just SO PA of your H. Crazy Eddie is spot on and I think his advice is perfect. By saying that you will be getting laid soon or that you will be moving out - whichever - you are rattling the cage big-time. You have to wake him up from his cozy little fantasy land where he gets to be "best friends" with his W without actually having to do anything. That is what SO annoyed me when my H back-pedalled he was doing the exact same thing your H is doing making YOU responsible for the break-up.
Rattle that cage good and hard girl, it's working for me.
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
