Well, LFL, I have followed your story ever since you arrived here, and not for the M and M's you throw my way every now and then, and as I recall, the two of you did make it work way back when because you both were motivated. It can be done. I joke about being lazy...but I don't wander too far from this board, now do I? Marriage is hard work...maybe it shouldn't be, but that's my experience of it. I feel like lighting a fire under your H's a$$ this minute.
Motivation is a key point RJ. I don't think either one of us feel very motivated to do much more.
I'm so stressed today I called in sick to work. I never do that.
Meanwhile, H bounces around all morning like nothing is wrong. Off to work he goes like nothing major is happening around here. It really freaks me out how emotionally distant he can be. I'm just not like that.
