Ya know he has always avoided conflict. I definitly don't think he is ambivalent about the M though. When i distance myself from the R he always pursues, so I know he wants the M.
I do think he still has some depression thus the disconnected feeling even though it is a lot better than it was. Overwhelmed, Probobly with his parents issues and everything else. Is he "hiding" most definitly. If he doesn't talk about it and I don't discuss it, then it never happened and we can be happy and he can rid himself of guilt.
I am almost tempted to drop discussing what happened before because I really am trying to move on from it but, I do need to make sure he understands my needs for the future.
If I do this he also needs to know that from here on out we need to discuss what is happening in our M.
To add to the pressure I (we ) feel we recieved a phone call last night informing us that if his father continues the way he is he will not live until Christmas. They do not see anything changing either.
JAK
Last edited by jak58; 12/12/0701:31 PM.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
