Hello,

I feel your pain... \:\(

I think you come across not blaming him - that this is about you. You speak from the heart and if this single note would destroy your friendship than it was not a true friendship. Friends should be able to express their feelings - they are just that FEELINGS not right or wrong they just are and it's how we act on these feelings that make it right or wrong. I think you are right in saying you need to heal before there really can be any true friendship. We women overanalyze and mull over the simplest things and guys just don't get this - or most don't (sorry for the generalization guys).

I think the letter is good!

HB \:\)


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