Thank you FIB for taking the time to stop by my thread, I understand what you are saying and will think about what you said, I have taken this relationship with the new man one day at a time, The sad thing is you are going into a relationship with a damaged heart and you want to protect that heart, when you are a LBS you remember that pain, you remember those feelings and you nevr want to go through that again...
I have had several talks with the new mam we have talked about us and what we both want and need, he understands when I tell him divorce is not what I want right now, it has nothing to do with having a relationship with my husband..it may sound selfish and I am not trying to be that way this is why from day one I let him know that divorce was not in the picture right now, down the road I do not know what my future holds..
I also think the feelings I was having the other day was also dealing with the news of my brother only having 2-3 months to live and I think the thought of not having him in my life brought back alot of mixed emotions..
Thank you again for your advice it is always welcome
