awe. I'm so sorry your sick. you musta caught something in Sonoma and being frozen with your top down sure wouldn't have helped. \:\( Glad that your H was very nice to you that morning though.

And it's so good to see you not searching for those things from him. And it truly shows your confidence level and that you are not "needy" anymore.

Trixi... yes you can be that detached. it just takes time, and forcing yourself until it happens. my H half the time slept in bed with me too. But I know that it was my faith in God that whatever happened He was in ultimate control and my life was going to just get better and better and that my sitch was a great process for learning, bettering myself, and trusting in Him.


oh Nikki. GET INTO THAT ROOM SILLY. ;\) and don't be scared. shoot, your not moving into a different house. your just moving down the hallway. I almost guarantee that your H is going to be around you even more when you finally do it. and you don't have to move all your clothes in there or anything. just stuff you use all the time. plus, it might be more fun to have your clothes in "his" room and you have to go in there to change. ;\) get some new sexy lingerie with ya when you do.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."