Well not much has changed here, W still did not come and see the kids, talked to her Aunt tonight, she called me, Aunt says she has not talked to her since last thursday. Her whole family is in nonbelief of what she has done. Some of her frineds called me today and asked if she has seen the kids, i saod i dont think so, they wanted to call her and see if she is ok. I told them dont do it, she has gone dark and wants people to call and check on her, play into her drama, i told her friends if something has happened to her i would know about it, if it invloves police or emergency personnel i know how the system works. Her Aunt told me she called her sister for financial help and her sister(who is going through her own divorce told her she kid help her with maybe 20 bucks, not what my wife is used to. My W could write a check for pretty much anything and not worry about it bouncing(not trying to sound like donald trump) but i provided pretty well for her, so a couple thoughts... she is playing this lost puppy waiting for me or other people to bail her out, or she is just lost and running out of places or people to turn to. Obviously OM is not helping her out too much. So i will keep DBing staying extremely dark, no calls,emails or TM i again have cut off communication with her completely. I can do this cuz i knw it will not go anywhere except her trying to get something out of me right now, what do you guys think....


Me 35
W 26
S 3
D 10 months
I have custody
Bomb 11/9/07
W PA 10/07 ended 2/08
Removed W from house 11/16/07
I filed in Nov.
D put on hold
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