Don't know what I'm doing anymore - Help.

[wawpioneer]

Your email response sounds encouraging. I can see some of your H insecurities in myself. I feel inadequate and unqualified to be the H that she is looking for. After all, she told me that I did not posess the qualities that she was looking for in a man. The EA really broke my heart in a way that she will never understand. There will always be a huge scar on my heart that will never go away. Something that I considered very special between us seems not so special any more. I am not taking any sides on this at all but I am just expressing my feelings on it right now so that you might understand the LBS point of view from the male perspective. However, it is our reactions to our feelings that dictate our behavior. I have had a hard time with this overall but it appears that your H has had his tough times with it too. It is a frustrating time for both of you as you attempt to rebuild trust. I hope and pray that you both will pull through.

I appreciate your insights and your female perspectives on this thread. It really helps me understand posibly what my WAW is thinking. There are good days and bad days and I am beginning to be able to distinguish between them. Thanks again for the insight!