Brit, my C told me yesterday to stop inviting H to do things w/ us. She thinks he says yes because he can't say no. Not sure why he can't. Maybe it is guilt or something. Anyway, your W might be the same way. Maybe you should pull back from giving her invites and she if she invites you. I know you have gotten into your patterns of eating at certain places on certain nights. Don't ask about the say Fri. and see if she asks if you are going for Mexican.
We're out of town Friday together, but she's been talking to me since about 9:30 when she got home from work - We ended up not going out tonight, but she asked me if we can go to dinner tomorrow.
I really wasn't sure if she was working late tonight, but she has been really straight forward with me recently - Even though we don't live together, she tells me where she is going, what she is doing, who she is going with. I'm not sure if she is consciously working to rebuild my trust in her, but it is working.
