Brit, my C told me yesterday to stop inviting H to do things w/ us. She thinks he says yes because he can't say no. Not sure why he can't. Maybe it is guilt or something. Anyway, your W might be the same way. Maybe you should pull back from giving her invites and she if she invites you. I know you have gotten into your patterns of eating at certain places on certain nights. Don't ask about the say Fri. and see if she asks if you are going for Mexican.