I am coming to the realization that I like my sex life as it stands right now. For instance, tonight, I know that if I really want sex, my H will make an effort for me, and if he really wants it, he knows I will try. If we're both wiped out, it won't happen, but we won't allow more than 2 days to go by without connecting. We don't seem to personalize any rejection anymore, as we make a deal to make it up the next day. It has taken us 20 yrs to learn to think of each other as well as ourselves.
