Every storm has a rainbow 2

[Dr LOve]

it's something to hold on to, that you can actualy feel good and it means you can survive.

This is so true. Do not get me wrong.. I can't remember when time flew by sooo fast. I do have some should of's and wish I'd's
though.
I can't wait for the next meet in January..then Febuary ...then March...................


H

[hurtandlost]

See, you are a true sensitive pisces but still enjoys the warm waters.

[tryingtoholdon]

Yeah about your trip! Also yeah about the dinner. She saw strength in you and responded. Small steps but good one's.

[Dr LOve]

See, you are a true sensitive pisces but still enjoys the warm waters.

Don't know she got pretty pissed today. BitcXXX about making lasagna for my son's school. Started throwing things and banging things. I told her if she did not want to make it just go buy frozen lasagna." NO I don't want to"

Can’t win for losing....
H
I am getting better. I need another Db meet NikB........

[NikB]

Ok now you have me wondering - what "should'ves" and "wishI'ds"?? (if you want to share ).

Sorry about the lasagna - that's a bummer. I have a pretty easy recipe if you still need one? Then again probably shouldn't "fix" it for her...

As for the meet, trust me, you don't want the flu!! It SUCKS, as if any stomach flu is great. Least it's almost gone.

[Blanche]

Your W is a hot headed one, eh? After she explodes, does she then go about her business as if nothing has happened? Then does she act confused as to why you might be upset about her behavior? Just curious.

Husband, Tomorrow is going to be a GREAT DAY!

[Dr LOve]

Your W is a hot headed one, eh? After she explodes, does she then go about her business as if nothing has happened? Then does she act confused as to why you might be upset about her behavior? Just curious.

Husband, Tomorrow is going to be a GREAT DAY!

Nik,
I did not ask her to make it. She volunteered.... glad you are feeling better. Don’t know catching the flu from you just may be better than dealing with her moods.

Blanhe,

YES.... She gets really pissed and then it's over. Must be a California thing. Like an earth quake. Over in minutes but what a ride...
It may sound worse than it is. She was not throwing things across the room. It was more of a slam thing down or tosses them into the sink.
When I suggested the frozen lasagna and her replay was "no I don't want to" I did tell her” then stop throwing things" not real loud but I did say it and I know she did hear it.
If my son was not in the room it would be so much easier (I think) to just start yelling back at her.
Maybe part of my problem is I still remember when I was a kid how my mom and dad used to fight and my mom would be the thrower. I was so scared. (I never saw then physically hurt each other) but I remember being scared. My son has never witnessed a two way argument between my W and I. (I don't think I have either).

H

[PennyMB]

Thinking about H....

She didn't throw any Lasagna at you did she? Just kidding..You could have started a food fight....

[saffie]

My son has never witnessed a two way argument between my W and I. (I don't think I have either).

LOL - You not sure if you have ever had a two way argument?

You'd sure know it with me - I can be one hot ticket when I get going!!!!!! My H told me when he first met me that he never shouted and i would never hear him shout at me - took two weeks - and I do shout back!!!! Well, did- pre children.....now we hiss at each other as we pass by so the kids don't here.

Saffie

[Dr LOve]

Ok,

I come home early and find W on my lap top..... She said she was looking for the stuff son and I did last night for his project. She wanted to fix a few things...... Do I fill in the blanks or take her word???
I really do not want to change the password. I think this would for sure shut any doors. We have a main computer that has become "hers". I think I still can go on it any time I want. Have not tried.

Husband