Oh, I was going to add: At day care, H said that a kid said "You don't look like D2's dad--you look like her grandaddy!"

I just laughed. H is unshaven and unkempt and that does make him look old. I think it bothered him--grandaddy and girl child off in apartment, while D2 needs him.

If I do say so myself, I am looking pretty good in comparison.

Sleeper--I am doing a little better; hope to be through the worst of the pain tonight. I agree that I do need to do what I can to take care of myself first but it is very trying. I may have to take off work again, sigh.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D