I like how you are setting boundaries. Keep that up. He will eventually respect that. He has no boundaries now.
Too bad he does not like it. It is his problem. One of the consequences for his actions.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11