helicopter parenting, at least in my book, doesn't include informing the other parent that you are off to the ER. Honestly, mark, I would want to know. I'm not saying I would rush over there, too, necessarily (depends on the situation), but I would want to know they were there. and I would absolutely call h, too.
I think what matters is that exes are on the same page with this. if you and your w agree, that's great. thankfully h and i are on the same page so far with things like this...hope we continue to be.
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