Uggh..I know blindsided how hard it is to not text back. My H sends me the how are you? texts alot. Then when I don't respond he will keep sending them over and over. But something does happen when you don't respond.....you feel like you are taking just a bit of power back and some of your own self esteem back that he trashed. Look at it that way.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!