Dom - yep.. I don't say "I'm tired of getting jerked around" to her. On the other hand you have a good point - from her perspective, I am resisting her will and ideas by resisting the divorce. So maybe from her side, it is me jerking her around.
About getting the Retrouvaille stuff in the mail - I know. That's why I am considering. All part of the key issue I am facing now - How do I balance the "you've chosen, now we must all face the unpleasant practical consequences" with "I still want to reconcile."
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....