Fooled again

[Startingover2]

This post stung me as well. When my H left in July 06 he said it was to give us space and time to figure things out, he needed to think, and we could work on our issues. All it was was lip service. He really had no intention of truly coming back. Sure he would come and go. Spend the weekend here and then come Monday freak out and tell me he wasn't ready for that. I lived this rollercoaster for a year. I, like fooled again, wanted him back so bad that I turned by eyes away from what was really going on.

Move on with your life. If he gets himself together for real, great. If not you are so much farther down the road.