I think you're doing the right thing in keeping things light, fun, and flirty. Joking around is nice. Probably the new atmoshpere was attractive to her. But don't go getting weird on her. The last thing you ought to do is go expecting sex when she comes over. Just keep your expectations low, no pressure, and if it happens it happens.
It's not all bad being the "bad boy" ya know. You might be able to work that into your game plan, have some fun with it. But be very careful not to confuse the "bad boy" with the "irresponsible wimp boy".
When negative thoughts start creeping in is the time to pray like crazy. There are evil forces at work here and they'll attack you in your weakest moments. Hammering you with fear, worry, jealousy, and self pity. Hoping you'll make stupid mistakes. Be careful, be wary, be bold and courageous. It kind of stinks, but the right thing to do is rarely the easy thing to do.
Stay the course, GAL, pray like crazy, and love unconditionally.
God Bless the Struggle,
COG
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