A minimum of 5X/week. I've been out of my 3-year SSM for about 2 1/2 yrs. now. He didn't like sex (except with his laptop) more frequently than 1X/every 3 months or so. It was my first and only experience with a LD man, and I hope never to go through that again.
I'm 49, and it's taken me a couple of years to find someone who is on the same page. It's really nice to not have to beg for sex. My ex was 7 yrs. younger than me. My bf is 50.
