But it is our ability to remember that reinforces where we are today. I often remember the dark times. Then I think of how I became the person I am today becuase of the dark times.

Try to remember with a positive spin. You and H are in a good place now. You were in a dark place before. Yay you for overcoming it. Or at least committing to overcome it.


Married 9 years
Kids 5 and 6
Bomb 2006
H back and forth for a year
M now back on track