blind , if you don't let go its over already. you must let go. i know its hard. its like sand flowing through your hand. don't pursue. we all go through this. there is a process to madness of was. every sitch i have read flows the same basic way. the more you fight it the longer it could take. it will take time. i am only into it 11 weeks. but it is getting easier. realize your h is not thinking straight, that will help, it has helped me deal with some of the things my w does.don't give up.


m-54
w-44
children-4
bomb-sept 21 2007
t-21
m-20yrs
bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023