H said our M is "platonic"

[Scott1701]

LFL,
Sorry to hear that. I'm feeling that I'm in the same boat, ableit without the separation and hot sex during that time, lol. We've done the counseling, the marriage encounter and the monthly couples group after the marriage encounter and the net result is the worst year yet for sex.

I don't have any good solutions for you. My kid is 12 and I'm worried that a D would devastate him as he's a sensitive kid. I don't want to put us both in bankruptcy either and right now we're dealing with her being laid off suddenly in Mid-November due to a company "realignment". (Gotta love the new corporate terminology).

So it's live as is or put everyone through pain. I'm not thrilled with that option either.

Scott