Sorry you were in too much pain to enjoy going into the field with H. It sound like he really does care. You have to start off as friends before you can become best friends. I don't think asking H to have dinner while in town is pursuing too much, if you were in his area would you appreciate an invite for dinner rather than eating alone?
Sorry no family left, must be hard, no built in support group. Any good friends? Strange how hindsight is always 20/20. I look back and can see things I should have done differently also.
I went to referee recertification clinic last night. A few guys I reffed with were suprised to see me, and looking so good. Someone had heard i was rehabing at Drake Hosp(hosp for severe brain injury, terminal illnesses and intensive physical rehab). If W comes back I'll give up reffing to spend more time with her.
I posted on someones thread in MLC, her H was on low carb diet & looking for recipies. She asked about my sitch someone answered that MLC has a lot of people quit after they start posting. That it is kind of a tight group. Keep posting someone will take you under their wing. He said he'd look for my post. Still got to do it.
Had appt with cardiologist, go back to work 2 weeks early. Can't wait, although my route is gone. Supt told me they are going to try something new that co does in Europe. I'll be troubleshooter, I'll take others repeat calls and fix. He wants to take advantage of my troubleshooting abilities.
I feel lucky to have the kids we have, they have turned out to be great young, responsible adults. I have gotten closer to all of them in the last 6mos.
Well consider me a friend, if you need someone to vent to i'll listen.
Mike
M 51 W 49 S26 S25 D24 D19 Married 27 yrs T over 30 S 7/12 D-bomb 9/26