I don't know how long it has been going on for. I certainly suspect it was in existance before she said "it's over". It's also quite likely it was an EA or there was some attraction just before she left - it was probably a factor in her leaving so suddenly.
Unfortunately for me I internalise anger very quickly. I wish I didn't because I want to deal with it because it offers some form of therapy. I'm sure my W believes she has not lied to me or done anything wrong - but I feel very betrayed right now. All that time and energy, no wonder there were no positive signs from her and all physical interaction stopped suddenly.
Right now I want to give her a piece of my mind, I never stand up for myself and am always too nice. I also feel I want to stop all forms of communication dead.
Do I forward the card? Right now she doesn't know I know because she's tried hard to stop me finding out.
Well, she put a black mark against Easter by dropping the bomb then, and now one of her careless friends has put a black mark against Christmas. Thanks a bunch.
Does anyone have any good advice as to how to deal with this?
Hope people out there are having a better day than me.
Take care all,
Max
Me 36 W 37 Bomb (Easter 07) Sep (WAW July 07) "It's over" (end Oct 07) T10.5 years, M2 (before bomb)
