I think it doesn't matter how often he texts her. Your H and OW are in a R. I've heard a lot that As last 6 months to a year. My EA lasted about 3 months, so i think it varies, but here's the thing. YOU have been there 6 years. YOU are having his baby. YOU will always be in contact with him.
Jenny is right. It's hard, but the things you are doing are torturing yourself. 3 days or 3 weeks without talking, doesn't matter. You will talk because of your child eventually. If you take that time away from him, use it to make you happy, then not only will you be more healthy for you and baby, but he'll see it down the line and maybe he'll wonder what he's missing out on.
Right now, he's not missing out on anything. Not a thing. Even if you don't talk a couple days, you will talk again and he'll expect that you'll be more than willing to talk or hang out or whatever he wants. How about next time he calls you let it roll to voicemail. Did you know if you want to leave him a message and don't want to risk talking to him, most voicemails have a feature where you can send someone a message. I have cingular and you go to the main menu and push 2. then you just record the message and then enter their number. You want to let him know something, do it that way or text him. Go dark so he has a chance to miss you. It may take weeks or months, but eventually (most likely) the A will end and he'll be wondering about you. Don't let him eat cake.
have faith... i have faith in you. YOU CAN DO THIS!!
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
