Actually if I am honest with myself, he ended it when he left without a word in 2004. We were doomed after that point. I thought we were going to be different. Fight the odds and make a M work after a S, but it is really quite rare. I think once the S and D words even start to get thrown around, your M is never the same. Hard to recover.
Well, LFL, I have followed your story ever since you arrived here, and not for the M and M's you throw my way every now and then, and as I recall, the two of you did make it work way back when because you both were motivated. It can be done. I joke about being lazy...but I don't wander too far from this board, now do I? Marriage is hard work...maybe it shouldn't be, but that's my experience of it. I feel like lighting a fire under your H's a$$ this minute.
