Originally Posted By: Corri

In my mind, so what if you are the one to end it, on paper. He is the one who actually ended it when he said to you... "you have to be the one to end this. I am fine and dandy with how things are, and I'm not changing.



Corri, where do you see that he said that he is "fine and dandy with how things are"?


What I see LFL as having written about him saying, is:

Quote:

He wishes things were different in our sex life but he accepts it as is.


that is not at all the same thing. In fact, it's pretty much just the opposite. That says, quite literally, is that he would PREFER things be different in the sex department, rather than him being perfectly happy as things are.


Last edited by Dom R; 12/11/07 09:31 PM.

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle