I might have been born at night, but it wasn't last night!
Maybe I was born last night! ...
I have already been on the OW merry-go-round when my first H cheated on me. So, when my (current) H left, that was the first thing I suspected. I tried to see what I could find out by checking phone records and talking to a few friends. I admit I found a few strange things and heard a couple of rumors about my H being seen with other women, but I have never been able to confirm anything. IMO, if my H has been involved with someone, it can't be very serious and not the bandaid that most MLCers are looking for...in fact, from the way my H talks, an OW would just be more pressure for my H.
I learned from my first marriage that if things don't make sense, there must be a reason for it. So, that being said, when MLC is involved, I guess anything is possible.
Hopefully you all don't think I am too much of a fool!
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