been reading your about your situation and just wanted to say Im very happy for you. Gives hope to those of us just starting our journey to keep at it. Such a change from where your W such a short time ago.
One thing Ive been able to hold on to is not to believe the words of our spouses. We never know what they are thinking in our presence or in private...at least that is one of the things that keeps me from slipping.
Just a short time ago my spouse said he'd never leave us but he has so my hope is now that he says he doesn't want to be with me that tune can also change.