Wow... i'm really happy for you. \:\)

and I'm going to do something surprising... i'm going to suggest that you do NOT bring up retrouville.

It sounds like you and her are finally in a place where you can work with the MC you have, and maybe get a little closer together.
You may have found something that "works".

Bringing up retrouville at this point, is more pressure on her. a LOT more.
I think you may be better off just being patient, and seeing where your current MC can guide you both.


(you may or may not want to discuss privately with your MC, when and if you should bring it up, though. Since she has a better view of things than we do at this point, she would probably be the best impartial judge of that.)

Last edited by Dom R; 12/11/07 08:52 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle