I think that you are seeing positive gains in your situation. I would hold tight and be consistent. I don't think going dark would help anything. It would probably hurt things a great deal actually. It seems like your W is comfortable coming to you with issues she's having right now. If you go dark, you run the risk of losing that. It could really push her to the OM. Patience Brit. Time is your ally in this.
Yeah, you're right - I guess I'm just looking for something to kick her in the butt, but like you said, only time is going to bring that. I've not seen much in terms of 'positive gains' recently, but it's all sort of a blur. Her inviting me over for dinner last night was unusual, but we have spent so much time together over the last month that I have honestly lost track of who invited who for what, and where we've been. We've talked on IM pretty much all day long, and last we talked about it, we're going out for dinner tonight with D.
The whole OM thing is almost laughable - He appears to have no interest at all in having a R with my W. W still hangs onto that hope, but they've spent no time together outside of work since she moved out. It is going to take her a while to get it into her head that he doesn't want an R with her, but I think it is slowly starting to sink in. I'm just sort of sitting back and watching it all happen - It's all just pathetic.
