I always want to scream "don't do it don't do it" to someone with young kids that wants to divorce because it's so fatiguing.

(Yeah, color me the only DBer on the planet who's against Ds unless absolutely necessary because I find them too exhausting for everyone.)

Prepare for three years of upheaval at the minimum before everything settles into a semblance of normalcy.

That said, I couldn't stomach a life without sex and intimacy myself. I'm really sorry, and totally understand where you're coming from.