I was in fact not slammed, well not too much any way. It was a really great session that I think that we both walked away from with some clarity about our sitch, our M, and our possibilities. I will not go into great depth because I think that some of what was said should not be shared in this forum, however, I will say that when asked if she wanted to work on this M my wife replied "I don't know."
Why would that be significant? Well, simple, that is the first time in 2 months that the answer was not a quick and certain NO. The MC even commented on her answer!
Additionally, at the end of the session I brought up our living arrangement and the MC said that while she will not tell us how to live our lives she does think that if we are going to make this marriage work we need to be in the same house to work on our "lessons".
Additionally, she talked about some changes we need to make in our communication and understanding and I think that we both accepted that.
Long story short, in leaving the session I got a big ol kiss on the mouth and she told me what a great appointment that was and that she was looking forward to going again next week.
I think next week is when I will ask about Retro.
So no slamming, also it was not all peaches and cream either, but overall I think that W and I left a little closer to R than to D.
Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship
S7 S4
M: 7yrs Bomb: 10/19 Seperated: 10/24
The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce
