H said our M is "platonic"

[Dom R]

I need sex! Is that so wrong?

not wrong at all.

sounds like you need to decide what you mean by that, though. "sex", can mean a lot of different things.

Do you need a physical release, where someone else is "involved"?

Do you need specifically intercourse?

Do you "need" passion?

Do you "need" to feel sexually desired, to bolster your feelings of self-worth?

Do you need sexual "intimacy", possibly more than the actual whole "orgasm chase"?


All of the above things are "desirable". However, I think the important thing is for you to carefully identify and differentiate between the ones that you "want", vs the ones that you really truely cant go without.