The numbers of affairs either PA or EA with an MLC are very high, just based off of the boards here and the number of people. Very very high, to the point where if your H is in MLC it is easier for you to prepare to discover an affair and figure on him having one.
Affairs are generally symptoms of the problems, not the cause of the problems in MLC. The OP is a bandaid. None of that helps ease the pain of discoverying an affair, but it does help knowing down the road if you manage to make it far enough to heal your R with your spouse.
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