I was sure my H was not having an affair! I told everyone he would never do that to me. Well, of course there was an OW and he admitted it about 1 month after he left. H totally dumbed down...OW convinced him to file for D, we went to court and I was all business...did not really give him the time of day the entire time we were seperated. H is now back home and our marriage is much better! We go to C and deal with the "why" and "how" of the whole sitch. Peacetoday...your post is EXACTLY how my H acted...EXACTLY