HI INGRID..YOUR POST RESONATED WITH ME. ITS HARD. THEY ACT LIKE SOMEONE DONT KNOW..NOT ANYONE YOU WOULD HAVE MARRIED. MY H DID REURN...AFTER FILING FOR A DIVORCE, ONE COURT aPPEARANCE AND SWEARING HE WOULD NEVER COME HOME AND OF COURSE ILYBINILWY....ALONG WITH HIS OW.

A, MY H HAD SEVERA EA/PA WHEN HE TURNED 30 A QLC? OR A MLC THAT NEVER GOT OFF THE GROUND?

Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest