I still think he needs to move out before the sale of the house, but that's my opinion.
Not going to happen until the house sells...
Originally Posted By: ourcrisis
Also, how he says ILY and how hot you are will sure makes you uncomfortable, among other things that he may be doing (being nice, hugs if any, etc.)
We talked about this and I told him it is confusing to me so he's stopped most of it.
Originally Posted By: ourcrisis
I don't know what your arrangement is now, but I would think having him just take care of DD whenver he wants is not a strong signal to him yet. If you have a schedule that he has DD duty MWF night or whatever, stick to it so he will get a taste of life after D.
OC - I'm going to work on this next...
mcol - you are very sweet
On another note, I have a very close group of 4 girlfriends. Two of them have known about the A since I found out. I did not tell the other two. They just knew there were marital problems. I just got off the phone with one of them to tell her about the D and guess what??? She didn't know about the A. Not one of my friends spilled out this confidential information to the others. Wow... Just goes to show you that I can trust these ladies with my life.. then again.. I already knew that
