Shoot! Well, now you know what you have been dealing with at least. I was just saying I wish I could be angry in my thread. I think you can use this anger to propel you along in your journey.
I have nothing productive to say; my thoughts are a bunch of expletives directed her direction. How RUDE to not have given you all the information of what was going on so that YOU could understand and move on (if you wanted).
FWIW, most affairs die off within 2 years. They aren't started under good circumstances so they crap out down the road; especially once it is exposed to the light of day. My guess, the affair started before she left (at the very least an emotional one).
Soo sorry Max!!!
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
