OUR SITCH.....pray for us

[john210]

lk,

I don't undrstand your last post. Did you or did you not snoop? I can't make out your text exhange??????

[Lkyguy]

we were supposed to go xmas shopping tonight...I told her i was going out to a meeting instead...what a fool...she wanted to spend time with me...friend time...occational hugs & the like .....I want to shoot myself! (not realy)...now she says she will go shopping by herself straight from work....probly w OM...I pushed her back toward him :(...OM is her boss...how can I fix this...what should i say to her?...HELP!!!!!

[Lkyguy]

yes i snooped thats why its all screwed up now....thats why my pain & anger made me pull away from her & sent her toward him

[john210]

If you are sure you screwed up, tell her you thought it over and rescheduled your meeting. One thing I don't get, you tell her you are busy and she automatically goes off with OM????

[Lkyguy]

well thats my fear....not sure if she is going w him tonight......

[john210]

So....tell her your meeting got cancelled and you would like nothing more than to join her if that is still possible.

[Lkyguy]

i text her that "im scared & hurt & shot myself in the foot again....quit?...id fight till the death for her..i wish I was still shoping with her...& that im so confused"....she called & said she has been throwing up....she cant take the rollercoaster ride...she is upset & will see me after shopping......man that was a backslide from hell............oh well ...back on the horse

[john210]

Bro....when you calm down, would you mind posting what exactly went on. I am just a little confused.

[Lkyguy]

OK clarification....she slept out fri night after her xmas party...(i think w OM)..she came home sat & was very nice & friendly...said she missed me...that i am the only one who really gets her...wished I was with her...we hugged often...trimmed the tree...last time this lasted one day(she stayed out overnight last time as well)..this time 3 days off & three great days together...we planned on shopping tonight...last night late I SNOOPED & saw a text to her boss that said HI BABE...on a secret cell phone she has...this am I was distant & said i am going to a meeting instead of shopping with her...when she asked why I was so cold I said i am mad at myself for being sucked in & don’t think I can do a friend type relationship w her....so stupid...love must be born in friendship....I’m an idiot...then I text her this am...that i wanted to believe her about missing me...then she said I give up easily & lets get this over with...then I text I’m sacred & hurt & confused....she is shopping without me & she has been upset by the roller coaster ride...& I had a real good feeling going till I snooped....now I may be back to square one.........

[Lkyguy]

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