Sorry it took me a few days to respond. Glad to see things are getting better. Hugs to you..
Funeral was on Saturday. Ugh..It was awful but we all made it through. Two years to the DAY we were there burying my mom's sister, then this past week her husband. My cousins were okay..It was the grandchildren crying that broke our hearts. So hard fo them..
New Guy went and took care of me, the driving, the kids. It was wonderful to have that support as I have never really had it. Kids were bickering on the way up and New Guy has the patience of a saint. Let me tell you..
Sunday I was the x-mas mad decorator. Did the outside of the house with roping and white lights on the picket fence. Same on the front porch. This year I bought twinkling snowflakes that hang from the rafters of the porch..so pretty.
I heard that XH is having his typical MLC Holiday Breakdown. I have ignored him since his little snit last weekend. He needs to cool down.
I did text him and email him AND had D call hin about her conference on Friday. He didn't go. Then I get a text from him last night..WTF?
It read: Report cards? Teacher conf. summary? Passport Application?
I guess I am only important for support checks. Okay..It took EVERYTHING I had not to respond but I didn't. I think the true reason for the text waas the last sentence.
First of all, he blew off the conference. Second of all, report cards..all he had to do was text the kids..we ALWAYS bring them to him..they had them for a week..that's it..so what? He never cared before..I would always ask him, "do you want to see their grades?" He is involved sometimes, others he is not..So, it was an oversight on my part. The kids faxed them to him last night. The last line..passport stuff. He wants me to fill all this stuff and go to a notary with all my free time. For a trip he hasn't planned yet..whatever..
Here we go again..
I know what prompted the text. He and the RAt got in a fight and she slung [censored] at him saying I said it. We spoke last week for a few minutes and I said to her that as long as he takes good care of the kids and gets his support payments in, that is all I want.So, I am sure it was misconstrued..I learned my lesson. Not to talk to her. But I didn't bash XH to her..I was just stating I want PEACE for the kids sake.
Oh well..
Good news!
My boss just emailed me to "discuss" my schedule at school for next semester..He says based on the reviews he wanted to very much accomodate my schedule. I was observed last week and kids had to fill out student observation forms..
I am hoping to get hired full-time..OMG! MY dream come true..To teach writing at a college level. I would have died and gone to heaven!! Woo Hoo!
So, I will let you all know how it goes..I am trying to meet with him today as my horoscope says its the best day in THIRTEEN YEARS financially..to sign governmental contracts, etc!!
SO FUNNY!
Have to run..house looks like xmas boxes threw up..
