WIO..hi....I just wanted to posted here since you had stopped over on my thread. Thanks so much for your comments on my sitch. I just wanted to say a few things and forgive me, but, they are meant in positive ways.
Frequently, I read in the papere here in NY how 'this one' has split the house in half and the ex-lives upstairs and the LBS lives downstairs...or...how 'that one' finishes the basement for the other. I guess...some people can do that...completely move on with their lives and yet stay connected in close proximity in some way to their S's. I know, for me, it would be impossible. Too much collateral damage.
My main comment here, is, if there is any future with your new man, look closely at this R and don't forget how later down the line, the maintenance of your M status my affect him and erode any good feelings later on. Use caution. The change in feelings can be insidious. Keep an open eye.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
