Yeah, it sounded a bit too strong as soon as I said it.

I'm of two minds on it. On one hand I want to leave the door open a bit. On the other hand, she's been jerking me around for months and months.

I never liked a TV in the bedroom. When I moved out of the house, the next time I visited, there was a TV plopped on a table in the bedroom. The kids were scattered all over the bed, watching TV. My opinion was, the bedroom was for sleeping and ML. It was OUR space, reserved for us. I didn't like the kids to feel like it was theirs. They had the rest of the house, 80% of the house to run around in. I wanted one room just for us.

But as soon as I moved out, she moved the kids into the bedroom.

(shakes head.) It's like she did it just to stick her tongue out at me.


I feel like I can back off my "I'm not coming back" statement if she comes around. I'm still wearing my ring and she knows it.

[Yes, she would take the kids if she got an apartment.]


M 43
S14 S13 D11 D7
Divorce final: Jan 2009
Making it up as I go....