OK....Just got this from my W....is she admitting an EA here? So how do I handle this, response? this is a big hit on my PMA.
"""I know you think I am cheating on you...The thing is, in a way, it is like I have been cheating on you for years...Not physically with anyone but emotionally with my "other" friends. You have never been a part of that life and I never wanted you to be a part of that life. I get something from those people that I never got from you, or at least have not received from you in a long time. We grew apart and I drifted closer to my work family of friends and I continue to meet new people on a regular basis. I want so much to have a partner to share everything with...I want to tell that person everything and want to be with that person all the time. We don't have that...and I don't think we ever did.
I am not in love and have not been for a long time. I suppressed this for so long because I thought it was the right thing to do for the kids...now I know it is not. I want to live my life and I want the kids to know what a loving relationship is. I know you are willing to do this, but it is too late for me...I do want to handle this the best way possible for the kids. If we do it right, the kids will be great. I want you to have the kids 50%...I don't want to cheat you or them. They love you and need you. But we are both going to have to figure out how to do this. I look at x and y and I think they do this right. I know you do not want this but if you could please accept it and try for the kids."""
