I am very sorry to not have written you in soooo long. I guess I got too wrapped up in my stuff for a while there...
It is great to hear that you and H are really starting to get along. I am glad you are here.
I don't have much time to post, but I wanted to say to really push the T thing with your H (you'll know when to stop). His and my past are similar, but I ignored my W's pleas to seek T, and this contributed to her having an affair.
I am now in T and MC, and I wish I had done it a whole lot earlier! Please keep DBing! You are doing great!
