It scares me sometimes how you can pin down exactly what I feel in regard to how much "control" I want my H to have over me. I am all about "control" in the bedroom, open displays of masculinity etc... Want to kill my desire? Make me be the agressor 24/7. I can be very agressive sexually but I am a whole lot happier if my agression is met with equal or more agression on the other side. If my lioness bites, she wants bitten back. OTOH - money, chores etc... I expect to be an egalitarian thing. My job, my core values, my hobbies, my friends - these things are mine and are non-negotiable.
