We were on the couch the other night and my hand accidentally brushed his and he carressed it. Know what? I actually flinched. I am so unused to being touched by him, so tired of getting turned down, ignoed or getting pity sex that a simple nonsexual touch causes me to flinch.
(((Karen))) You MUST do something to take better care of yourself. You don't want to end up like me and have a Romanian-orphan-left-too-long-in-the-crib reaction the first time you have sex with somebody "normal". You are a healthy adult woman and you should be having sex. You are a human being and you should be experiencing affectionate touch on a regular basis. I'm sorry but if that is the price people have to pay for being long-term monogamous then I say "F*ck long-term monogamy." Be kind. Be honest. But go get what you need girl.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
