You were all right...unfortunately...

[bombardier50]

Thanks IMconfused. My DB coach told me the same thing. This is time to focus on myself. I just took ten minutes and went out in the woods and cried my eyes out. Then I stopped and came back in and worked on something that gives me a small bit of pleasure.

Cemar...I'm not telling anyone anything. If my approach is effective, and my wife eventually gets her sh_t together, then SHE can tell the other wife what's going on. Let HER deal with the firestorm. As per my DB coach, I'm not going to tell the world, pull in friends and relatives, etc. Coercing them to stop will only make them want each other more. One or the other of them has to get their head out of their butt and make the decision for themselves to stop. This is HER f____g problem. I'm going to work on taking care of myself.

See...look at me. Now I'm mad. Twenty minutes ago I was crying my friggin eyes out. What a rollercoaster....